See What’s Really Happening Between You
Stop guessing. Start seeing.
Founding Members get our assessment and analysis now—and first access to the full program when it launches.
You track everything. Except this.
You track:
Your sleep...
But with relationships? You’re still guessing.
The #1 thing that ends relationships isn’t cheating, distance, or lack of sex—it’s the fights you think are about these things but are really about something else.
You’re fighting smoke. The fire is somewhere else.
- The 10th reminder—are they not listening, or sabotaging things?
- The 100th time sex isn’t happening—or you’ve shut them down.
- Dishes that turn into a multi-day argument living rent-free in your head.
- Little digs about your work. Wondering if you can still trust them.
- They bring things up at the worst time. You both spiral.
That’s just the smoke. The real source—the pattern that keeps lighting the match—lives under the surface.
Why you can’t see it clearly
Your brain fills in the blanks using old memories, past relationships, and childhood templates. It feels like truth—but it’s projection.
Without realizing it, you react to expectations and collect “evidence” to prove them, accidentally creating more of what you don’t want.
What Spark Theory does
We give you the clearest view you’ve ever had of your relationship—and yourself.
Your Membership starts with a forensic‑level analysis that shows:
- What your partner is doing that’s working (and you’ve been missing)
- What’s quietly eroding trust and connection
- How your patterns compare to other high‑functioning couples
From “I wish they’d change” to “We’re changing”
You’ll see real‑time trends from couples like you:
Tiny shifts → big breakthroughs
Which small changes consistently unlock connection and resolve recurring fights.
Looks like closeness… but isn’t
Habits that mimic intimacy while actually masking distance.
Spend energy wisely
What’s worth your effort—and what’s not. Grounded in neuroscience and relationship research.
How We’re Different
AI and machine learning give you the data.
We turn it into clear, actionable insight you can use the same day.
What happens if you don’t?
Or, try something new. A smart tool for smart, data‑driven people.
Why now
When you understand how the brain processes threat, love, and memory, you stop arguing about symptoms and start solving the root cause.
The Spark Theory app is coming—but Founding Members get free access to our assessment and analysis now, plus first-in-line status for the full program.
What your Membership gets you
Crystal‑clear, data‑driven view
A forensic look at what’s really happening between you.
Separate reality from projection
Insights that distinguish your partner’s reality from your expectations.
Benchmarks that matter
See how you stack up against couples thriving in similar circumstances.